Anyone familiar with my writing knows I am not a fan of modern day feminists as I find them to be constantly complaining, bad tempered, aggressive, nagging scolds.... in fact, the very definition of a "shrew."
Feminists act like any man that is assertive or dominant in nature, dubbed by some as "alpha" personalities, are automatically "toxic" because of their masculinity, and they do everything in their power to castrate them, figuratively and in some cases literally. All one has to do is a search for "Toxic Masculinity," to see how feminists, and the establishment media, have created a whole narrative where a man that actually acts like a man, is labeled a "sexist," or a "misogynist."
THE FEMINIZATION OF MEN
We have seen and reported on the feminization of men in today's society, where clothing lines pushing men dressed in skirts and dresses, make up lines are using male covers, and the so-called "beta male" is being touted as attractive, yet even feminists want nothing to with them.
The most succinct way I can phrase this, and I will apologize in advance for the crudeness, is that feminists today are de-balling men, then finding they are not attracted to them once they are figuratively castrated. Once those men are "woke" (whatever that means!) basically no woman, feminsist or not, want anything to do with them.
Along with the media and feminist push to feminize men in the name of that "wokeness," we have the chemical castration of men with the use of Xenoestrogens in everyday products in almost every home, such as drinking water, skincare products, sunscreens, industrial products and plastics, foods, insecticides and numerous other products, which is devastating birth rates and fertility.
Then we have colleges across the nation teaching that masculinity is toxic and sending out generation after generation of young men that are scared of being men because they fear being labeled a sexist or a misogynist.
We also have liberal websites pushing the idea that straight men enjoy "masturbating together." I kid you not. Slate recently headlined a piece with "Helping a Brother Out," with the sub-header claiming "BateWorld hosts a vibrant community of straight men who enjoy masturbating together. How they make sense of that says a lot about the nature of male sexuality."
Vibrant community of "straight men" their sub-header claims, yet delve into the numbers, using their own graph, we see 50 percent of that community self-identify as gay, only 10 percent claim they are straight, 30 percent say they are bi-sexual, four percent are described as "solo-sexual," and five percent prefer not to self-identify.
One last example because it is Christmas season, is 27 percent of respondents to a new survey, want to emasculate Santa and make him either "gender neutral," or female. Thank heavens at least 70 percent still have a brain and don't agree.
The point here is that from our educational system, where children as young as elementary age, are being taught "gender fluidity," with the media pushing LGBT, transgender agendas, with feminists trying to force men to become more feminized and less masculine, and our household products are quite literally suppressing testosterone, we are seeing more and more "beta males," or feminized males, and less dominant alpha males.
The problem is that after all this work to kill off the "masculine" male by the aforementioned groups, no one wants those men once they have been feminized, as shown below in a new study.
Interestingly enough, according to a newly reported study, those same feminists that are constantly trying to turn men into little girls, actually prefer "assertive" and "dominant" men. Apparently modern day feminists are not as attracted to emasculated men as they are to Alpha males.
What I find intensely interesting in this new study is how the researchers automatically label an assertive or dominant male as "sexist, or a "benevolent sexist," when for many women (that do not consider themselves part of the modern day feminist movement), the attitudes described by the authors of the study and the written report over at Psychology Today, is what we would consider simply "real men."
Seeing that title one would think that they are claiming that feminists are attracted to men that discriminate against a woman based on her gender, but within the article we see the following description of what the author considers "sexist."
Women who admit to liking bad boys—being attracted to men who are assertive or dominant—are sometimes criticized as having “internalized” misogynistic attitudes, or simply as naïve and foolish, failing to recognize or admit that sexism is damaging......
So, assertive and dominant are now being associated with "bad boys," which in turn is being associated with sexism and misogyny.
No wonder feminists are confused, even the original study authors claim that "Benevolent sexism (BS) has detrimental effects on women, yet women prefer men with BS attitudes over those without."
What is "Benevolent sexism" you ask? Well the Psychology Today piece describes it as men who believe the following:
• Women should be “put on a pedestal” • Women should be cherished and protected by men • Men should be willing to sacrifice to provide for women • Women are more virtuous than men • Women are more refined and pure, compared to men.
Whatever our thoughts on any of those individual beliefs, I simply cannot see how any of them are "detrimental" to women as the studies authors are asserting, without evidence, nor how any of those beliefs could be considered sexist in any way, "benevolent" or otherwise.
The very basis of their preferred narrative is flawed.
MALE FEMINISTS ARE A MYTHICAL CREATURE
If there is anything worse than modern day feminists, it is the men that claim they are "male feminists," which in my opinion, is nothing more than a mythical creature.
Described in a variety of ways by different people, a "male feminists" is supposedly a man that supports the modern day feminist movement, or at least claims he does. As we have seen multiple examples of during the #MeToo era, many self-identified "male feminist" writers have lost their jobs after allegations of sexual assault, by multiple women.
While not a fan of Saturday Night Live these days, about a year ago they did a perfectly representative skit called "Girl at a Bar," that captures the fakeness of the mythical "male feminist."
My favorite description of a "Male Feminist," is found at Urban Dictionary:
Most often, the males who vociferously support feminism fall under the beta positive or beta negative category within the male social hierarchy. They usually patronize the feminist ideology simply to elevate their status in women's eyes, even though stridently feminist men are almost always found explicitly on the internet (similar to the "white knight"). Regardless of the numerous hypocrisies and double-standards endorsed by most sources of feminism, the male feminist will leap to his armchair, a dedicated keyboard warrior, to defend women against the horrible "profanations" and "vulgarities" people make towards the delicate and faint-hearted damsel in distress.
Which brings to the ultimate backfire that occurs when men are feminized, then deemed too feminine, or not masculine enough to want to date, which in turn creates beta boys that are sexist, misogynists that hate women.
THE ULTIMATE BACKFIRE - THE 'INCEL COMMUNITY'
'Incel' refers to Involuntary Celibate and evidently there are whole communities, forums and websites dedicated to these individuals, the majority of which are men who are dissatisfied with their sexual and romantic lives. They hate "alpha males," which they call Chads, and beautiful women, which they call Stacies, for their own inability to find dates or sexual partners.
While liberal websites like Huffington Post claim that the extreme sexism and misogyny found on these forums, stems from "toxic masculinity," and others claim "Patriarchy," is responsible for the Incel community, what they ignore is that in order to understand the extent of the hatred and vitriol Incels express on their websites and forums, one has to actually see who the Incels themselves blame, which are feminists and feminism.
One cannot assign cause without even bothering to observe the people they are supposedly trying to understand, and one cannot explain something they have no understanding of.
Men have been attacked and feminized, then when feminists are done degrading them to the point where they might as well be testicle-free, those same feminists then want nothing to do with them, so they see themselves as inferior, and join the Incel community, where they egg each other on, sometimes to a violent end.
Feminists are creating more sexist and misogynists, which to me, indicates the ultimate backfire.
While I may not agree with the videographer below as to women and men needing to be given "different" rights, his presentation of how society has changed, from marriage to the increase in fatherless households, and sexual promiscuity and more. All the changes stemming from each wave of feminism to create a dysfunctional society, and in turn, creating the incel community, is an interesting watch.
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